Friday, July 25, 2014

The Body is Honest

I've been putting on a happy smile.  Not because I'm happy.  But I have this mindset that complaining really doesn't do anything.  (who is listening anyway?)  So I smile and nod most things away.  Well, lately the body isn't feeling me and it's letting me know in a big way. 

My insomnia is back.  In addition, I've picked up tension in the shoulders which has brought along tension headaches that I can't shake.  I'm fidgety and semi moody.  Everything seems to annoy.  My side where the biopsy was done and my joints ache.

So I sat down and vented to my mom everything that is bothering me.  What's going right, what's going horribly wrong.  I didn't realize I had so much pent up stress stemming from frustration;  money, the limitations of my body, certain endeavors not panning out, selfish people, unfinished house repairs, car issues, and on and on.

My mom, who is the cheerleader of all things cooky that I get into, said "Just go lay down and focus on your camper, the kids and getting better."  So, I'm sitting here semi-reclined and trying to put a positive spin on the negative. 

I am also trying to learn it's okay not to be OK.  It's not okay to stay there.  Sometimes you do need to have things go horribly wrong so you can be steered in the RIGHT direction. 

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Trial and Error pt 2 - My Tips

·        After all that , I feel I finally figured out the magic recipe. (see Trial and Error post pt1)

1.     Try to find the SIMILARITIES between your native language and the language you are learning.  Everywhere I looked kept saying, "Japanese is so hard,"  "It's so different from English," “Japanese is idographic.  It’s represented in pictures or symbols.”  Hello, so is English.  WE just call them letters.  Kanji are symbols that have sounds (readings).  Sounds make words.  (Letters have sounds. Sounds make words when put together.) Um…duh.  Granted, their symbols sometimes look like what the word is supposed to be whereas in English the word “eggs” does not look like eggs.  The kanji for eggs (tamago) actually looks a little like sunny side up eggs.  Don’t trip over ON and KUN readings.  Many letters and words in English have more than one reading and sound. (think of all our vowels and the letters Y, G.  Words like homophones and homographs, dipthongs, and digraphs.  In this context, other languages are a cinch!)
2.     Speaking:  Learn simple phrases, verbs, and vocabulary that have meaning to you in your daily activities and interactions.  Expand your vocabulary later.  Begin to use what you learn.  Find a penpal or torment your relatives and friends.  We do this as children when we are learning English (want cake –vs- Please may I have a piece of chocolate cake?)  It only makes sense.
3.     Learn to read and write words and phrases as they are written in their native language.  For Japanese I found starting out by learning the strokes was easiest.  I started with one stroke kanji and worked my way up.  By the time you get to the 7 stroke kanji, you’ve seen and written many of the elements several times and stroke order becomes almost automatic.  For reading, start off with leveled children’s books and newspapers with helpers then work your way up.  Eventually you won’t need them.  Try not to cheat by using bilingual books.  :)
4.     Practice the alphabet of the language.  Pay attention to the sounds the letters make.
5.     Use mnemonics that work for YOU.  Mnemonics with a city reference won't mean squat to someone from a fishing village.  Draw pictures, make up a song, make up a sentence, associate it with something you already know, or act it out.
6.     Listen to speakers of the language in every form you can find.  Cartoons, game shows, variety shows (Gaki no Tsuaki is hilarious!) music, language cds, dramas (soap operas), action films, etc.  Just LISTEN.  Words sound differently when they are being sung in a song versus whispered or screamed.  Eventually it will begin to make sense.  You’ll pick up on words and phrases you’ve learned.
7.      Be patient.  You weren’t born and raised with this language.  It’s going to take you some time to learn it.  Some people learn it in 3months - others in 3years.  You probably have school, work, or a family to deal with as well. 
8.     Ask yourself:  What is your goal for learning the language?  If it’s to speak it for when you travel on a vacation or for a short term job assignment, you don’t need to be fluent and learn the entire vocabulary (Hell, even regular native English speakers don’t know every word in the dictionary).  You just need to know how to say a few things.
9.     Have fun.  If it’s all drill, drill, drill you won’t have any fun and more than likely won’t remember anything.  

What works for you?  Did I miss anything?  What’s your opinion?  Let me know!

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Trial and Error pt I

After a few months on my Japanese learning, I think I finally found the right formula that's best for me.  Notice I said ME.  This may not work for all.  It's not supposed to.  We're all different.  We process differently, we percieve differently, and our backgrounds which affect processing and perception are different.  So, here's what I did.  (I'll list the resources I used in another blog with an evaluation of how they worked for ME along with my own personal tips.)
  • I scoured the internet for resources.  Webpages, blogs, teaching sites, etc. 
  • I purchased, borrowed, and read instructional books.  Tons of books.
  • I watched anime and Japanese children's shows.  
  • I also listened to all kinds of Japanese music.  Japanese rap is amazingly similar to American rap.  The rock music though, totally different level of presentation than American and European rock.  My kids now like Gazette and Black Gene for the Next Scene alongside Rammstein and Linkin Park.
  • I wrote.  Everyday.  14-20 kana or kanji a day.  My poor wrists.
  • I started throwing words and phrases into my everyday speech/text.  My sister told me "Look, it's too early for your ninja crap!" LOL

What I did right (in my opinion)-I tried.  Everyday.  Reading, writing, listening, and speaking.  I also tried different methods and tools to help me along the way.

What I did wrong.  Wasted time on the wrong things.  Let me explain.  I'm an ADULT learning a language.  Instead of starting my learning on concepts and things taught by certain grades or randomly put together in a book, I should have focused on learning concepts and phrases that are meaningful to a 37 year old English teacher and mother of two.  I have a different set of vocabulary and phrases from a 20 year old chemistry student living at home.  Another thing I did wrong was not pay attention to the way things are written in their native Japanese.  Lot of Romanized versions in my notebooks.  Waste of time and paper.  Forgive me trees!

So, now that I've gone through all that the rest of this should be a breeze!  :)

Monday, March 31, 2014

Nihongo kudasai!

So as I've mentioned I'm relearning several languages at once. Insane, I agree. But I'm one of those sink or swim people. Spanish and Italian are giving me no issue.  Japanese is kicking my a**. Doushite?  Word order.  If I know the basic structure of a sentence the rest is vocabulary and conjugations. Es facile, no? Ie, chigaimasu! Nihongo wa muzikashi desu! I think I need to find a better partner to be honest. I've been watching shows and listening to music.  I attempted to locate a penpal but it's going soooo slowly.  However, I will not give up.  Just taking a minute to vent since it's too noisy to study while the man tears apart our bathroom...Mendokusai >.<  On a brighter note, my new kanji book arrived.  Hopefully it'll have more compounds or at least mnemonic devices to help remember the meaning, reading, how to write AND frequently seen compounds.  Maybe I'm too demanding. ._.  Mata ne.

Wednesday, March 26, 2014


I'm lonnnnnggggg overdue for an update.  Forgive me.  I've moved from Florida back to Connecticut due to my poor health at the time (still not 100%.)  Then we moved from the apartment we were in into a house that needs more work than the house in Money Pit.  (J/k)  I started taking several classes while out of work to keep what little sanity I have.  Why not?  I've always wanted to take certain courses but couldn't because of time or money or whatever other thing life threw at me.  I also started little side gigs to make some pocket change because being broke sucks.  Oh, and I started taking Japanese lessons again. 

Eh?  Japanese?  Why?  Well....why not?  Seriously though.  Because I actually lived there and learned some of the language.  But being where I am in America there wasn't much opportunity to speak it so I lost it.  Well, thanks to some of my friends (and the INTERNET!!!!)  I've connected with some folk abroad who can help me keep it up.  In addition, I'm relearning the first foreign language I learned (Italian), brushing up on my Spanish, and eventually I'm going to get a little deeper into German. 

Now I'm trying to figure out how to take all these classes, certifications, languages and interests I have and put them together and do something meaningful and fulfilling.  It CAN be done...I just need to work it out.  Imagine you're going to live to be 70 or 80 years old.  What would you do with all that time?  Continue to do the same ol' stuff day after day?  Would you do more of what you love?  Would you love more?  Would you learn more?  Would you LIVE?

A lot of young people around me have been dropping like flies and having serious health problems.  I'm only nearly 40 and I seriously think of my own mortality more and more.  When I think of it I realize I want to LIVE and not simply exist.  This is what has spurned me on to take this time my body is healing and do more of the things I want to do and do more with my hellspawn.  No more slaving for bills and fancy things.  Family, traveling, music, learning, socializing-these are the things that are important to me and they last longer.  Nails break, clothes shrink, cars get run down.  I'm good.